At the age of 21, John was still closeted — or perhaps just still confused — about his sexuality, and ended up in a relationship with a woman named Linda Woodrow. The two were engaged, and John, rather than be honest, decided to set up a suicide attempt in order to get Woodrow to realize he didn’t want to be married to her.
One afternoon, in an apartment with his buddy Bernie Taupin and while Linda was napping, he put a pillow in the oven. Then he opened all the kitchen windows, stuck his head in the oven, and turned on the gas.
“It momentarily seemed quite dramatic when Bernie hauled me out of the oven, but there wasn’t enough carbon monoxide in the room to kill a wasp,” he wrote. Linda just thought he was depressed, and that his single “I’ve Been Loving You,” failed to garner any traction. (The song ‘Someone Saved My Life Tonight’ is about this very incident.)
It took another of his friends and musicians, Long John Baldry, to “spell out what I already knew” and get him to admit that he was gay. He and Linda split. In 2020, John paid for her medical bills, even though the two hadn’t spoken in 50 years.